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For example, maybe he used you (emotionally, physically) and now you wanna get a baseball bat out and go to town on him like Beyoncé in the Lemonade film but you don’t want to reveal your rage and fulfill the “crazy woman” stereotype so you internalize it and take it out on some other unsuspecting guy you find at a bar or on Tinder.*deep breath* A short-term self-esteem bandaid (in whatever form) won’t cover the gaping flesh wound this person left you with. Whoever can come away more untouched and unfazed from a one night stand or rejection is supposedly the “winner” of this game people play now.Casual sex culture is scary because it can harden us and makes us think that it’s wrong to have feelings.If we don’t want to play the game, we can be harshly judged or cast out. GO FIGURE SOMEONE WOULD WANT TO BE WARNED BEFORE ANAL SEX.
I feel like I’ve experienced it all: getting dumped and having my heart broken, dumping someone, having blowout arguments, being used, trying to have casual sex, getting played out, being an unsupportive significant other, being called horrible things — you name it, I’ve probably lived it and learned from it.It reflects more poorly on you than it does your ex. I know what you’re thinking: “Raegan, does that really need to be explicitly stated? How much I believed that I was just lucky someone wanted me.