We are stuck dealing with the most complex, dynamic relationship situations by applying clunky and awkward dating categories that are entirely unique to a historical setting at least 50 years ago in our small subculture.
Andersen describes “the intentional man” as one who “repeatedly and constantly goes first and takes on all the risk of rejection.
That contrast confuses the nature of the issue so that it is difficult to see Andersen's point.
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For the most part, Andersen's piece spoon feeds us the same folk wisdom we've been hearing in the church since everyone freaked out when that first guy asked the first girl on a one-on-one date to get ice cream (I think the same folks are still freaking).
I am disappointed that we haven't modified our thinking about a cultural practice that has evolved immensely in good ways and bad.My roommates are all gone this weekend.” The unintentional man goes dutch (thereby communicating that a woman is worth only half the meal).