Rules of dating a player
Your defense: Thankfully, macks are rare and don’t try to hide their game, but you have to accept that you are the rule and not the exception.Go read over and over again until it is burned into your brain.If you slow things down and try to get to know them, they will move on to easier pickings.Players know it is just a matter of time before you see through the con.
Knowing the specific dangers is key, because blanket judgments like “all men are cheaters” may protect you, but it will also block you from the opportunity of a wonderful relationship.
If you have heard the term before you may have mistakenly assumed it was another name for a player or bad boy, but macks are different—and far more dangerous.
Part of the reason why they are so dangerous is they can be great partners, husbands and fathers if they ever decide to be in a relationship.
However, the most dangerous con a player can run is the one where he claims he has changed and wants a long-term relationship.
He may actually want a long-term relationship, but always remember that chronic lying is addicting—an addition that requires at least a year of sobriety to begin to recover, just like any other.While they may not end up in prison, they thrive on breaking the rules—like with monogamy.