Dating through time
It's basically the first stop for those entering the dating world.If you want to play the odds when it comes to online dating, you need to be swiping where everyone's swiping. “Even if my marriage had not ended, I feel like this age would still be an odd period of reflection and probably some discontent. ”Five months ago, at the nudging of one of her friends, Wacuka joined a singles’ Whatsapp group.
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I also worry that I have invested too much (time) in this relationship to let it go. We talked more about our children and politics than we did about ourselves.
Maybe I have stayed with him because no-one else has come along. But then again, maybe I am stalling because as I approach 40, I am beginning to think that I might be okay with not getting married or having children. I could be friends with this man; I really like him. So I am thinking maybe he is the logical choice because he is comfortable and safe.
“By age 30, I was ready for a divorce,” she says, “But I hung in there and got divorced at 36. But I was young.” Tazim started meditating and asking questions about life.
“Am I supposed to buy that you are born (to) go to school, get married, have children, make money, retire, have grandchildren and then die?I knew life had to be about more than just that.”While she continues to have a healthy single life, Tazim is very particular about the men she dates.