Dating middle children
She said: "Look, I want to be your wife, not your mother.You learn to pick up your own clothes and put them where they belong.What is at work here is the opposites-attract-and-are-good-for-each-other factor.The first born teaches the last born little things that may be lacking, such as being organized and having goals, while the last born helps the first born lighten up and not take an overly serious approach to life.Opposites not only attract, they are usually good for one another in a marriage setting.
Sande had to put up with my fussy eating habits and picking up my clothes after me wherever I dropped them. Soon I found my little piles of clothing where I had left them.According to the researchers, the best possible match you can find is the first-born female and the last-born male.I took no part in this research so I can't be accused of making this claim because that happens to be the match Sande, my first-born wife, and I have. First-born females are often mothering types and last-born males often need mothering.According to their research, only children and last borns supposedly make the best match, followed by first borns and last borns. Following is a quick rundown on six birth-order combinations and why they tend to go wrong or right in a marriage, plus some practical tips for each combination.
Keep in mind there are no guarantees that a certain birth order combination will lead automatically to a successful or miserable marriage.I started out being fortunate to be the last-born brother of my first-born sister, Sally.