Dating a man whose divorce is not final
The problem is this; I met someone online and we really connected.
Chances are, they have spent years unhappy, feeling lonely, knowing the marriage was over, and grieving it. ” “Is he using a girlfriend as a quick fix for getting over his divorce?
In any case, they have their reasons for not wanting to date a guy who isn’t officially divorced. A couple doesn’t just decide one day that they want to get separated.
Well, I have my reasons too, when I say that I think people who won’t date someone who isn’t officially divorced could truly be missing out. In most cases, they have been unhappy for months, years, even decades.
So, really, they could be divorced (emotionally) but the process just takes awhile. ” “Does he have no intention of getting divorced and is he just telling people he’s separated?
My criteria for dating after divorce was never “is he officially divorced yet? ” “Is he considering divorce and just playing the field?Despite the fact that our relationship became more than just friends, we both pride our relationship on the fact that our friendship is the most important thing to us both.