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Marla said she’s “drawn to masculine energy,” no matter what sort of body contains it. “All of the guys I date have the same type-cast—edgy Asian tattooed hipster artists—and I always go for the super butch gals.”Surprisingly, only the straight male mentions bisexuality’s cultural components.
“People’s cultural identities and social lives are connected to their sexuality,” he said.
“From what I’ve seen, it’s pretty jarring (socially) when folks go from hanging primarily in (for example) a lesbian community to one that’s not primarily lesbian.
Or on the flip side, there is difficulty fully integrating their straight partner into their queer world.
Even if you had the best vanilla in the world and even if you kind of preferred vanilla most of the time, wouldn’t you want chocolate every once in a while?
“I began actively calling myself bisexual after I started dating my now-husband and got animosity from the lesbian community.
One particularly ignorant former acquaintance said to my face, “another one bites the dust” when she found out I was dating my now-husband.”Anna adds that “lesbians are the first to crack jokes and call you a ‘hasbian,’ but if they’re real friends, they’ll back off eventually.” Shelly, a massage therapist, has also gotten flack from the lesbian community.