Best friend dating my sister updating leo4all
When I asked her why her brother was upset, she said her brother’s explanation was simply, “That’s just not what black people do.” I could see if he was upset because she kept a secret from him or because maybe he thought his friend wasn’t good enough for his baby sister, but to make it a cultural thing seemed strange to me.Then again, I had known many white people who had no problem dating their best friend’s brother, but no black folks. I don’t have any brothers, so I can’t say how I’d feel if my bestie wanted to date my sibling.And it's getting pretty serious, but the problem is, is that he's my best friends older brother. Oh that good old dating the older brother but are good friends with the sister situation! Bottom line: if you like him and you are really into him and it’s not some kind of sick game, this could be a really good thing. But once someone finds out, the fun of it goes away and people get hurt.So perhaps you need to discuss with him if these feelings are real or if this is just one big mind f*** because of the rush you’re both getting by keeping it a secret from her.I’m not saying it could never work out, but I’d have to make sure that the guy I’m interested in would definitely be worth the risk of losing a friend.Either way, if this is something you’re thinking of doing, be sure to cover all your bases.
Handle it in a mature, discreet way so that all parties can remain friendly afterwards.Logic would suggest that you’d want two of your favorite people to be together right? One thing my girls and I did growing up was talk about the boys we liked, dated, kissed, hated, and then kicked to the curb.